Hey, what's up?
This is da'Shade ... sitting in for Kennedy James, who is on vacation.
I ain't a jealous guy. But, shit, there's a lot of jealousy goin' around.
Here's the deal. Jealousy ain't nothing but an expression of your insecurities. Mostly, jealousy crops up because of some romantic attachment. You love some guy or gal so much that you can't imagine ever being apart from them. So, everyone else becomes yer enemy, cause you know in yer heart that everyone else must see what you see ... so, yeah, they all want to take your special someone away from you.
Shit, makes sense to you.
But, hey, it don't make sense. You can't "own" a person. If the guy or gal is going to fuck around on you, well, there ain't a whole lot you can do about it, short of killing your sweet treat, and planting him or her in yer garden where you can be sure he or she will be safe and secure. Don't do it!
Instead of driving yourself crazy, instead of making your life nuts and trashing everything important in your relationship, how about finding a little bit of self-esteem, a little bit of self-worth? Once you clue into the fact that you're special in your own way, then you can just say, "Hey, you want me or you don't. Either way, I'm good."
So get hip to what makes you ... you. And try to remember that you should only want to be with people who want to be with you. If they have other plans, fuck 'em. They ain't worth the bother.
Hit that mic and don't be a nightmare dressed like a daydream ...
This is da'Shade ... sitting in for Kennedy James, who is on vacation.
I ain't a jealous guy. But, shit, there's a lot of jealousy goin' around.
Here's the deal. Jealousy ain't nothing but an expression of your insecurities. Mostly, jealousy crops up because of some romantic attachment. You love some guy or gal so much that you can't imagine ever being apart from them. So, everyone else becomes yer enemy, cause you know in yer heart that everyone else must see what you see ... so, yeah, they all want to take your special someone away from you.
Shit, makes sense to you.
But, hey, it don't make sense. You can't "own" a person. If the guy or gal is going to fuck around on you, well, there ain't a whole lot you can do about it, short of killing your sweet treat, and planting him or her in yer garden where you can be sure he or she will be safe and secure. Don't do it!
Instead of driving yourself crazy, instead of making your life nuts and trashing everything important in your relationship, how about finding a little bit of self-esteem, a little bit of self-worth? Once you clue into the fact that you're special in your own way, then you can just say, "Hey, you want me or you don't. Either way, I'm good."
So get hip to what makes you ... you. And try to remember that you should only want to be with people who want to be with you. If they have other plans, fuck 'em. They ain't worth the bother.
Hit that mic and don't be a nightmare dressed like a daydream ...