The Allure Of The Obscure
I've decided that I need a fetish.
I've never had one, and I can't imagine going through life without experiencing at least one fetish.
Now there are all kinds of fetishes, many of them dealing with sexual behaviour. Some people seem to have a thing for feet or toes in particular. To be honest, I'm not much of a foot person. Too many angular bumps and nodes for me. So, I would have to say no to the toe.
Other people have been know to get off by dressing up in swaddling clothes, newborn gear in size XXXL, and pretend they are babies. I can't imagine.
Then there are those who get off on particular smells, talking dirty in bed, sexual role-playing involving "forbidden" relationships or situations, bald heads, bald genitalia, amputations, having sex in public places, well, the list just goes on and on.
I don't suppose there are any squeaky clean fetishes. They all seem to have something a little "kinky" connected to them, something a little risqué. Well, I am certainly not opposed to something kinky or off-beat, but maybe my life has been more normal than I thought it was. It seems as if a great many people out there are doing the weirdest of things, and I hate the thought of being left out.
The real question is how does one decide on a fetish? Maybe, you don't. Maybe you just fall into one when you least expect it.
Maybe, I should just make another cup of vanilla-infused Earl Grey tea ... hmmm ... even that sounds a little kinky ... is that my fetish?
So, what's your fetish?
I've decided that I need a fetish.
I've never had one, and I can't imagine going through life without experiencing at least one fetish.
Now there are all kinds of fetishes, many of them dealing with sexual behaviour. Some people seem to have a thing for feet or toes in particular. To be honest, I'm not much of a foot person. Too many angular bumps and nodes for me. So, I would have to say no to the toe.
Other people have been know to get off by dressing up in swaddling clothes, newborn gear in size XXXL, and pretend they are babies. I can't imagine.
Then there are those who get off on particular smells, talking dirty in bed, sexual role-playing involving "forbidden" relationships or situations, bald heads, bald genitalia, amputations, having sex in public places, well, the list just goes on and on.
I don't suppose there are any squeaky clean fetishes. They all seem to have something a little "kinky" connected to them, something a little risqué. Well, I am certainly not opposed to something kinky or off-beat, but maybe my life has been more normal than I thought it was. It seems as if a great many people out there are doing the weirdest of things, and I hate the thought of being left out.
The real question is how does one decide on a fetish? Maybe, you don't. Maybe you just fall into one when you least expect it.
Maybe, I should just make another cup of vanilla-infused Earl Grey tea ... hmmm ... even that sounds a little kinky ... is that my fetish?
So, what's your fetish?
"I've never had one... "
ReplyDeleteUntil recently, I've always been a bit mistrusting of people who would deny, or even vehemently protest, the idea that they have a fetish. It was my belief that such a person was incapable of ever experiencing true intimacy, not being able to admit the fetish to themselves, much less to another person; and that they would consequently go through life guarded, until they finally and victoriously take their dire secret to the grave with them.
However, perhaps some truly do not know that their fetish actually IS a fetish, and being so close to the action, they truly ARE unaware that not everyone has a propensity to involve fruit or handcuffs or those forbidden thoughts they have late at night.
As for my fetish? Eh-- While I believe fetishes have one common characteristic -- and that is the nagging urge to be made known to someone -- in my particular case, that someone doesn't have to be everyone.
~Manfred
http://knightsfeather.wordpress.com/
Privacy has its privileges ... something like that ...
DeleteI hate to be vanilla but I don't have a fetish. I wouldn't mind spanking a few people but not necessarily during sex...
ReplyDeleteI think some fetishes might be like a ball and chain (that's the only way the person can enjoy sex)? I dunno?...there's a show called "Strange Sex" that I have watched a few times and it really lives up to it's name.
Haha ... I'm with you about spanking a few people ... mostly for incompetence ...
DeleteI haven't seen the show "Strange Sex" — it must be on the Discovery Channel ...
;o}
Since when did talking dirty in bed become a fetish? I've always had a thing for erotica ... probably reading it more than actually being involved in it. Well, there was that one time ...
ReplyDeleteHmmm ... well saying, "And what the fuck do you think you're doing now?" is not talking dirty ... haha ... ;o}
DeleteSome of my poetry dances on the edge of erotica ... but I rarely read erotica ... too predictable ...
"...but I rarely read erotica ... too predictable ..."
DeleteThe same could be said for porn ... the ending is always the same.
Interesting music video ...
DeleteWhat are you suggesting ... huh???
DeleteI couldn't comment in the reply section...weird...anyway I have watched the show on Netflicks (not sure the original channel)
ReplyDeleteMy "smart" TV wants NetFlicks, but I don't ... haha ... I pay way too much for cable as it is ...
DeleteYou know how things just pop into my head? Well ... this did and I can't remember reading it.
ReplyDelete"Jude the Obscure," the last of Thomas Hardy's novels, began as a magazine serial and was first published in book form in 1895. Its hero, Jude Fawley, is a working-class young man who dreams of becoming a scholar. The other main character is his cousin, Sue Bridehead, who is also his central love interest. The themes in the novel revolve around issues of class, education, religion and marriage. (Wikipedia)
Well, cousins have been known to fall in love and even marry ...
DeleteLove, it seems, didn't get the memo ...
Well, it's weird... really after my long break to appear on your blog and find such post. I don't know what to tell you...
ReplyDeleteRegards from Sarajevo
Haha ... well did you think I would change? ;o}
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